Take the time to evaluate yourself
If there’s one thing that irks me (impractical), it is the loud display of a person’s animosity. I guess I observe & find interest in reading people as opposed to speaking to them, so knowing body language has been a forte - & really can’t be avoided for me.
Some people are a pleasure being around whereas other people can’t help but being fucking nuisances. Aside from the exceptional physical or psychological conditions (some more than others), there is never an excuse to not check yourself & your actions. They say never judge a book by its cover, or you don’t know a person’s journey til you’ve walked in their shoes, but you’d certainly know when a person makes their emotions evident through their day to day conversation, their actions, their attitude. I give no pardon to that. A person like myself may tolerate the shit, but after a while you may start to notice when someone distances themselves for that fact. The only thing I see those types of people running from is themselves.
So, ultimately, what I’m getting at is… the capability of improvement. Think about these: Humble yourself. Let go of whats in the past, obviously it wasn’t fitting enough to make it into your future. Carry yourself well. Don’t give yourself excuses to acquire the characteristics you don’t wish to carry. Sure, no one is perfect, but you aren’t done growing. Substituting one thing for consolation of another becomes an excessive dependency (whether it be friends for a significant other, drugs for troubles, a significant other for friends, lust for love, etc.). Whatever it is that you’re missing is missing for a reason.
I’m saying this not for the sake of myself, but for the sake of others, come correct and be a pleasure to be around.
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